Mom Life Balance: Tips for Juggling it all

Finding balance in motherhood is a continuous process of self-discovery, growth, and adjustment. As mothers, we wear many hats—caregiver, teacher, nurse, chef, chauffeur, and more. In the midst of fulfilling these roles, finding balance can mistakenly be put on the back burner. However, achieving balance for me is about prioritizing, setting boundaries, and being kind to myself. Balance in motherhood does not mean perfection. It’s not about having a spotless home, a perfectly behaved child, or a flawless career trajectory. Instead, it’s about finding a rhythm that works and brings me peace. It’s about recognizing that some days I will excel in one area and feel less accomplished in another—and that’s okay.

One of the biggest challenges mothers face is the guilt associated with taking time for themselves. However, I like to view self-care as a necessity. Mothers should prioritize their well-being to be fully present and effective in their roles. Just like everyone always says, you can’t show up for others as your best version if you aren’t taking care of yourself first. A few ways that I do this is by scheduling “ Me Time” to do the things I love such as skating, reading my devotion, or watching podcasts. From time to time I like to journal my way through the different seasons of life. This helps to not only keep documentation of emotions but also have a place to release. Lastly, I’ve learned to accept the support system that I have and lean on people who are genuinely in my corner. Having people or places to go where I can just take a break or talk things through always leaves me in a better space than how I entered it.

Being realistic and showing up in my truth makes the world of a difference because I’m able to control my own narrative. I’ve learned not to overpromise, not only with myself but with others. Also, being realistic with my priorities and goals in a way that I’m still productive but not overextending to a point where I don’t get overwhelmed or experience burnout.

I’m always sure to give myself grace and understand that it’s okay to make mistakes. Motherhood is a learning experience, and every day brings new lessons. Community is everything so many times even just having other mom friends who I can relate to or share information, ideas, and experiences with is always a plus because at the end of the day it’s fun and heartwarming; even the everyday moments like sports and homework time. It’s enjoyable to be a part of the different phases!

I say all of this to say, balance doesn’t mean doing it all—it means doing what matters most and finding peace in the process. The journey of motherhood is about finding what works best for you and embracing it fully. Celebrate the small victories, practice self-care, and know that you are not alone in this journey!